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Wednesday, 13 July 2011

Japan - 8-13 July 2011


Day 1: 8th july - airport - Darrell and Seiko - okomoniyaki at Umeda

Love the airport, it is built on a artificial island. As the plane approaches, i saw the mountains and i got excited. On the Approach, you can see Osaka on the port side of the plane. I was sitting on the starboard and my view was the sea.

It was kinda early at 0730hrs. Most of the shops were not open. I came out of the airport looking for the limonsine bus. I was really easy as the bus stop are clearly mark with numbers. I went to No. 5 to buy a ticket from the machine. It cost 2700 yen for a return ticket from Kansai Airport to New Hankyu Hotel, where Nami is waiting for me. While waiting for the bus, I couldn't resist myself to buy a Coke from the vending machine which is so abundant here.

Punctuality is expected in Japan. If the schedule says 0825hrs, the bus shows up at 0815hrs. If the train is late for 1 min, there are announcement made to apologize to commuter. On the limousine bus, announcement were made in Japanese and English. They even explain that due to traffic, the bus might not be able to reach destination on time. And more apology.

Up to this point, I still couldn't believe that I'm in Japan. I know Japan through media, I use Japanese product and I love them, I tried Japanese food, but to be here is surreal. 

Nami was waiting at the air con waiting area. Osaka is hot at this time of the year, this, I had a hard time believing too.

We walked to Osaka station and bought the ticket to Esaka and walk about 10 min to Darrell and Seiko's house. We drop by a supermarket to get our breakfast. My first meal in Osaka is cold Soba.

Seiko was waiting for us at home. Since it was so hot, the aircon was turned on. We had breakfast together. I took the night flight from to Osaka, I'm feeling slightly tired now. To my surprise, Seiko is into Korean drama, I took a shower and leave the girls to follow their Korean drama.

It was slightly more than 1 hour before I woke up. Not bad for a afternoon nap. We went out for lunch at a Sushi restaurant. Have you seen those Sushi conveyor belt in Japanese restaurant. This concept started from Osaka, according to Seiko and Nami. I was impressed when you order a dish, a chime will sound out to let you know your order has arrived. It's quite fun. Besides sushi, you can order soup and desert which we did.

After lunch, while Seiko was doing some grocery shopping, I wandered in the store. Wow, it's all things Japanese. And everything was so nicely package, tempting shoppers to grab them. I was craving for afternoon coffee and we head back to Seiko's place to make some.

Okonomiyaki

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Osaka singles disciple has a traditional of having Okonomiyaki when visitors come over. We waited for a short while before getting a table. I actually didn't know what to order, I guess they saw my helplessness and order something on behalf. I did ordered beer for myself. 

Darrell and Haruka made it in time for Okonomiyaki dinner. I love it. I love everything serve hot from the plate. Okonomiyaki has shredded cabbage, cheese, some special sauce, beef, pork or seafood, and sometimes rice and noodle. There is nothing in it that I don't like. Great company, delicious food and accompanied by beer, what more can I ask.

Nobuaki had to work late. Despite that, he still make a trip over just to say hi. Really appreciate his kind gesture. We were done when he came, I feel bad that he haven't had dinner. I try to make it up by offering him a slice of Kuey Labis that I brought from Bengawan Solo in Singapore. We spend some time getting acquainted and took some funny photos. 


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It's time to call it a day. Darrell and I wanted to catch up more and talk a little bit into the night.


Day 2: 9th july - Hiking - Kobe harbour - takoyaki party at Taka and Shinobu


Unknown to me, people in Osaka cycle alot. Every train station has a massive bicycle park. The one at Esaka is 2 storey high. On most day it is packed. You have to pay like 100yen to park your bike for a whole day. I was told that because parking is so expensive, hardly anyone drives to work. Riding to the nearest station to get on a train is the most common way of getting to work. Another thing that amaze me about bicycle parking in Osaka is that hardly anyone uses a chain to lock their bicycle. Just a simple lock that prevents the rear wheel does the job. You see, I use to love riding around the estate I live until I lost 2 bikes to thieves. I lock my bike using a chain, I guess they probably use a cutter to get my bike. I doubt Singapore will ever get to a point where bike theft are rare.

Darrell, Seiko and I got on our bike and rode to Esaka. So how did I get a bike. Last night, Yobuaki was nice enough to meet us after work and to pass the bicycle key to us. Darrell was riding kind of fast, I was trying to memorise the way and catching up with him. After a few change of train, we finally got to Kobe Station.

We have to make a trip to the supermarket to get our lunch, something new to me as well. I only go to supermarket to get fresh food, not ready food. But it seems normal for Japanese to find their lunch or dinner in the supermarket.


Steps away to the waterfall, originally uploaded by Jerry Tok.



I am amazed and impressed by japan. The hike up to the waterfall is amazing. The first waterfall is the Male Waterfall. I wonder why the name? The view from the lookout point is simply amazing. Reminds me of HK, but this is more impressive. Then haruka and Nami bought me to kobe Harbour land. I was in awe of the view. I wanted to say that singapore is beautiful but i think just cannot be compare to this. 

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After visiting the bay, we got a bit of time. I wasn't feeling very hungry but I just couldn't forget the suggestion to try McPork. We don't get that in Singapore as we have Muslim and therefore all fast food are Halal certified. I like McPork. Like most other country, McDonald's only serve ketchup and not chilli sauce.


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We had to Mikuni station and walk over to Taka and Shinobu's house. By now, I'm starting to realise that I'll probably not get a chance to take bus. It seems like most ppl walk to get to their destination after alighting from train station.

The Takoyaki party was really awesome. Since Takoyaki originate from Osaka, almost every home has the hot plate for making Takoyaki. Usually, people use octopus as the filling but tonight, thanks to the creativity of Shinobu, we had cheese, kimchi, sausages and other meat as filling. I like them all.

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Takoyaki Party 1, originally uploaded by Jerry Tok.

I met a lot of the disciple and they are all very kind to me and make me feel absolutely welcome. Later, Taka came home after this baseball game. It was a company event. Taka is tall. Though he looks a little stern (maybe due to his height), he seems like a caring person. I wish I could converse with him in Japanese.

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So glad to meet Shohei. He's going into full time internship for 3year. This guy really have the love for ppl. 

Later on, Taka gave me a ride to Darrell and Seiko's house. Darrell waited for me at the carpark. 


Day 3: 10th july - Breakfast with kids class - Church - Karaoke with brothers - date with nami

Got picked up by car from Darell and seiko house. Osaka church is like a house. The first floor is where we have the Service. We went up to the 2nd floor where nori and fiona is staying. They are also the caretaker for the church. 

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Church starts at 11am. But by 9am, some of them have arrived and brought with them breakfast. I like the atmosphere here. Feels like a family gathering. We had breakfast together. I had to chance to share about the young teen ministry that I am serving now. I am humbled by the Japanese disciples' willingness to learn from my sharing. I felt under qualified to teach anything but they are so eager to hear.

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Fiona was my translator at the service. We sang songs in Japanese but in the familiar tunes from the Kingdom songbook. Ken the brother who is leading songs also choose an English song to sing just for me. I felt so honoured.

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It's been the church tradition to have lunch together. Again, we went to the supermarket to get lunch.  I got myself sushi and cold noodle. After lunch, we sat around the table to fellowship. Some of the kids we running around and playing. These few boys were fighting with their swords. "Very boys" as Darrell puts it.

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We went for Karaoke with just the brothers. It's really funny to see Darrell singing so enthusiatically in Japanese. I got to sing a few songs in Mandarin and English. We had a good time singing, clapping and playing the tambourine.

Karaoke in Osaka, originally uploaded by Jerry Tok.


Date
Met up with the sisters at the station. We head to the Osaka station for date. We first went to the HEP building. Apparently, the shop that they are looking for is closed already. So we adjourn to the nearby mall and went up to the restaurant on the 17th floor. It was buffet style dinner. I love the sunset and the view of Osaka from here.

We went looking for Purikura. The last time I did this was probably 12 years ago. We have fun. I like reviewing the photos and seeing all the funny expression. One machine has the function of enhancing the eyes and make it bigger. Some of Darrell shot were really funny. He already had big eyes, the enhancement makes his eyes look 'too beautiful'

Before we head home, we went for a short prayer and I got a nice card from my date.

 


Day 4: 11 jul - cycle to park - spendtime with Shinobu - BBQ dinner with Nori, Fiona, Lily and Nami

Slept in till 11. Pick up my bike for a ride in the morning. I was slightly disoriented and make a couple of wrong turn.  Finally, figure out with direction and head for the park. Just half an hour, i know i was hungry. Probably a little too hungry to enjoy the park.

Spend about 20 Min exploring the park, i was too tired to go on without breakfast.  So i head the direction home and was on a look out for conveni.

Went over to Shinobu's place for tea time. Seiko was there as interpreter. We talk about deep stuff.

Went to a pet shop to get stuff for seiko fish tank. The pet store was huge.  I saw a big tortoise. He's sleeping and not moving.

Then off to the church we go. Fiona and Nori invited me over for dinner. Spent some time playing with lili, i drop the ball into the honeycomb and out come a voice in japanese.



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I was getting a little self focus and started checking my email. nori and fiona set up dinner at the rooftop! And the menu for the evening was bbq. Very manly food. Nori was quietly serving and cooking and not complaining or demands recognition. I love the meat and the japanese bbq sauce. 

Lily was tired and Fiona has to put her to sleep. We clean up a bit and went out of the house to play Hanabi (fireworks). Hanabi always brings back alot of childhood memories.





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Day 5 12 july - Prayer at Lucua-lunch with nami-dinner at Taka and Shinobu.

Shohei is an awesome brother. He took a day off just so that he can spend the morning with me. We went over to umeda to meet nami. But before she came, we had some time to talk. He's quiting his job this job to join the staff internship. That must be a big move for him to do that.

We had breakfast and QT. After prayer, Shohei had to leave for work. Nami and I spend some time to decide what we can do for the rest of the day. We took a walk at the mall and went looking for a place for lunch. We found a restaurant that serve katsudon, one of my favourite japanese food.

We went around some stores looking for souvenir that I can bring home. I end up at the supermarket getting snacks to bring back for my family and friends. We met Shinobu at the supermarket. A visit to the supermarket is an experience itself. Everything is nice. Not just the packaging, most of the product are of high quality. Japanese really make everything to perfection.

We spent the rest of the evening at Shinobu's house chatting and having coffee. At evening, we sent Nami to a cafe near Mikuni Station, where she is meeting other sisters for a bible studying. We bid goodbye at the cafe. And just went we came out of the cafe, there was rainbow. 

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Day 6: 13th July - Transit at KL - Singapore

Gotta wake up early today at 7am. Need to catch the limousine bus at 8am. Not sure if Nami and Shohei is going to come. Nami call me yesterday to tell me she's not feeling very well today and might need more rest so that she can make it for the devo on wed.

Well, Shohei and Nami did show up. I was glad to see them though i really feel bad for making them getting up so early just to see me off. I'm so touched.

Since i had 2hours before my flight take off, i went to explore the airport. I am very impressed by japanese service. The limousine bus tag every luggages, the staff tagging my bag are friendly and efficient. Upon arrival at kansai Airport, there was announcement to imform you that you've arrived at 4th level at departure hall. To retrieve your baggage, present your tag to the porter. They are really always friendly and efficient.

This plane is a newer version,I'm glad that i can watch video on demand. There're new titles to choose from but i really couldn't resist Avatar. Watching the movie brings me to a new world. And it seems so real. I want to believe it is real.

The other title i select is a short film on kim yuna, the korean figure skater that took the world by storm. Korean woman are living at a time when its cool to be a modern woman. Woman are taking the lead in music, fashion and figure staking! ! And the Kim yuna and other woman, they are urging woman to be themself, pursue their dreams and scale new heights. I think this is also happening in many parts of the world, including sg.

I notice the rise of woman and i suppose i can say the weakening of the male species. Men are afraid to lead, and the poor frustrated woman has to take charge. Later the woman lead and maybe even doing a better job,that makes men more intimidate and create a vicious cycle.


After spending 3.5 hrs wondering at KL International Airport, I was glad I can get on the homebound plane. I will think twice about transiting the next time I fly.

Thursday, 3 June 2010

人情味

If you're at my place this CNY for gathering and late night games (mahjong included), you would notice my fan. A very special fan that doesn't ventilate the room; an item that doesn't serve the very function it was meant to be. Nevertheless, most ppl would be tricked by the fan. Deceivingly, you can switch it on, and it will produce the kind of sound you'd expect from a regular functioning one. But try stand right in front of it, there is not wind at all!!!

Aiya, why am I talking about my fan? Can you believe that I've been using that for the past few month. Sometimes my room temperature that reach 30DC. I sleep in a sauna. When it gets too bad, I'll crawl out of bed, grumble, walk to the living room, and move the fan there to my room.

It is only recently that I learned from Jason that I can replace the fan blade instead of the whole fan. Sounds...environmentally friendly. I'm going to go for that solution. But I procrastinate, and it's been months.

One day, I got home from Melaka and found a brand new fan. Made in Japan and comes with remote control!!! Mom bought me a new fan. Seriously, I was touched. Mom actually knows that I have a special fan that needs to be replaced. As loving and caring as she is, she told me the reason for getting me a new fan is because she thinks that I've been wasting electricity with my special fan, because it doesn't cools the room at all. Mom is so loving and practical. (hehe)

The other day, I was about to leave the house for appt. Mom wants me to have the rice dumpling she just made. I am so glad to taste mom's cooking. I took time to enjoy the rice dumpling and tell her how I like them. I stepped out of the house, physically and emotionally fed.

It doesn't take much to make someone feel special. Mom has made me feel so loved.

Wednesday, 26 May 2010

黄小琥-伴

I hear this song on the radio and was dumbstruck by the words. So loving, so sincere, so raw, so unpretentious, so out of this world. Picture yourself at 90 years old and your spouse singing this song to you.

Is is human nature to desire for someone to share your live. I don't have the answer, ask those who are married. Even better, ask those who are happily married for 50 years.

黄小琥-伴

作詞:姚若龍 作曲:于曉光、李偉菘 編曲:Terence Teo

如果命运可以定做
如果有另一次选择
我想我还是会把手让你紧握
快乐的陪你去坎坷
就算你有天变落魄
就算你老的不能动
我想我还是会挽着你看日落
你的心疼在泪光中
嘴巴上彼此嫌麻烦
眼神中关怀那么满
没说爱却早已认定一辈子的伴
在人前从来不浪漫
在心中却总为对方打算
最懂的人最暖的伴


就算我以后变罗嗦
就算我老了有病痛
我想你还是会照顾我到最后
隐藏最弱不眠不休
嘴巴上彼此嫌麻烦
眼神中关怀那么满
没说爱却早已认定一辈子的伴
在人前从来不浪漫
在心中却总为对方打算
最懂的人最暖的伴


嘴巴上彼此嫌麻烦
眼神中关怀那么满
没说爱却早已认定一辈子的伴
在人前从来不浪漫
在心中却总为对方打算
最懂的人最暖的伴


没有辛酸,没有遗憾
什么是陪伴,什么是心安
你是答案

Monday, 29 March 2010

Abundant grace

I made mistake everyday, and more so recently. As these mistakes are considerably major, it resulted in major consequences.

However, I am really a blessed man. Instead of receiving punishment or justice served on me, I received grace. How sweet is it to be on the receiving end of grace.

I learn that if the opportunity comes when others sin or wrong me, I should also offer the same grace that I received so abundantly recently.

Thank you Yew Cho, my dear sister Jasmine and Jocelyn, and my buddy Zach. Thank you for showing me grace.

Tuesday, 13 February 2007

Prayer: Praising the Lord

Dear God, you are worthy to be praise. Your everlasting words existed before the creation of the world. It is still living and active today. Your desire to have a relationship with man and your never-changing love was the same yesterday, today and tomorrow. Will your Word ever pass away, will your love for me ever ceased? Never...

Father, your plan to save the world is amazing. It is unfathomable, even to the Jews, your chosen people. Not even the 12 disciples whom Jesus eat, sleep, preach and walk with. Not even John, Peter and James-Jesus' best friends. I am amazed that you chose me amongst the millions of people in the crowd. You change my heart and I decided to make you the Lord of my life.

Thank you for my church in Singapore. It was the church that taught me your Word. I grow and nurture in the church. I was love by the Christians. I learned how to sing. I become a better communicator, a better listen. Most of all, I learned how to love and be loved. I can distinguish evil and good. Through my eyes, I see the weakness in others. But through Your eyes, I see their strength.

I love my family and I pray for them that 1 day, they'll find the treasure that I found 8 years ago-a relationship with you; A purpose in their life; a meaning to wake up every single day.

God, you determined life and death. I'm sorry to hear that Sherlee's dad passed away. God be with the living-Sherlee, her mom and her brother. May they find strength and comfort in your love.

Your son, Jerry